What we must do
Create a safer environment
Seeking to remove students from violent homes, removing violent students
from schools and avoiding the possibility of abuse by restricting one-on-one
connections between students and professionals all look as if they would
increase student safety. Instead, these approaches tend to restrict important
talk about experiences of violence. This silence decreases safety, and decreases
learning, for many students who are denied any possibility of exploring the
meaning of their experience. For these students, connections to build trust
with adults become limited, and if they act out or become violent
themselves, they are likely to experience repeated confrontations and
continually decreasing control over their learning environment.
Opening up talk about violence can create a safer environment. In the long
term, policies with regard to child welfare and safe schools should be opened
up to extensive research and reviewed. In the meantime, student isolation
can be reduced by adopting approaches that normalize experiences of
violence and provide information on actions and supports that can be
accessed following disclosures of violence. Schools and youth programs need
to acknowledge the complexity of students' lives and recognize that families
may not be supportive of student learning. Schools need to be cautious about
how and when to engage families in students' education, and always
recognize that this may increase violence in the home. When school
personnel are careful to make the policies visible, to engage students in
identifying "consequences," and to clearly separate the behaviour from the
person, they decrease the chance that students may feel they are being
judged as bad and punished unfairly. Exploring possibilities of reframing
students' "bad" behaviour and enabling students to test out alternate
identities might prevent escalations of bad behaviour and violence. Afterschool
programs such as LOVE offer an exciting model for addressing
violence issues in the lives of youth and for supporting students to reframe
their identity. They learn to see themselves as leaders with a role to play in
reducing youth violence rather than as trouble-makers or victims of violence.
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