Summing it up
Create a safer environment
Seeking to remove students from violent homes, removing violent students
from schools and avoiding the possibility of abuse by restricting one-on-one
connections between students and professionals all look as if they would
increase student safety. Instead, these approaches tend to restrict important talk
about experiences of violence. This silence decreases safety for many students
who are denied any possibility of exploring the meaning of their experience.
For these students, connections to build trust with adults become limited, and
if they act out or become violent themselves, they are likely to experience
repeated confrontations and continually decreasing control over their learning
environment.
Opening up talk about violence can create a safer environment. In the long
term, policies with regard to child welfare and safe schools should be opened
up to extensive research and reviewed. In the meantime, student isolation can
be reduced by adopting approaches that normalize experiences of violence and
provide information on actions and supports that can be accessed following
disclosures of violence. Schools and youth programs need to acknowledge the
complexity of students' lives and recognize that families may not be supportive
of student learning. Schools need to be cautious about how and when to engage
families in students' education, and always recognize that this may increase
violence in the home. When school personnel are careful to make the policies
visible, to engage students in identifying "consequences," and to clearly
separate the behaviour from the person, they decrease the chance that students
may feel they are being judged as bad and punished unfairly. Exploring
possibilities of reframing students' "bad" behaviour and enabling students to
test out alternate identities might prevent escalations of bad behaviour and
violence. After-school programs such as LOVE offer an exciting model for
addressing violence issues in the lives of youth and for supporting students to
reframe their identity. They learn to see themselves as leaders with a role to play
in reducing youth violence rather than as trouble-makers or victims of violence.
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